7 KIND OF FRIENDS YOU NEED TO CHOOSE. - Life Blogger Net

Today I would like to talk about what kind of friends we should choose, (what's the reasons of choosing friends), (importance and benefits of having friends). We all have friends, no matter what's our behaviours, we live interacting with other people for different reasons. Friendship is created by people within a short time.


Friends are people that care, love and help us when we are in need. A person who hates you isn't your friend but your enemy. Our relatives can also be our friends, though not all relatives since some of them might hate us. Many people choose the wrong kind of friends leading them to troubles.


Friends can either be old or young as for long they help, support, love, respect, encourages and motivates you. Example; a small boy can help is grandfather to wash his hat, secondly, a pedestrian helping people on an accident. Friends can either be men or women. Example; a man helping a woman to carry a heavy load.


We can choose friends anywhere at anytime while interacting with people at different places such as market, shops, school and any other public associations. Before creating friendship people first introduce each other identifying themselves. However, not all people have the courage of speaking and introducing themselves to strangers.


Before creating friendship consider the following tips below. Choose wisely, your choice makes creation of good friends.

1) A polite, respectful, obedient and honest friend.
Before approaching a stranger, don't rush introducing yourself, observe his/her etiquette manner, politeness and even does he/she respect and obey other people around you. If the person has the above habits prepare introducing yourself.


2) A loving and caring friend.
Love and care its the main thing to determine while choosing a friend. Its impossible for us to friendly choose a stranger that harshly and abusively talks to us and other people. This kind of person can cause harm on us, we should avoid them.


3) A moral and upright friend.
We should never choose people that associate themselves on harmful things like drugs. They might tempt us to use or join them. We should choose a moral and upright friends that lives simple and safety life.

4) Helpful  and supportive friends.
We should avoid people that aren't willing and interested to help and support us. This kind of people might be jealous of us, hereby they might discourage us.


5) A God fearing friend.
God is a supreme being that protects and provides for us. We should choose a person that fears God, in addition we should avoid the people that never believe in God for they may lead us in to temptations and sins.

6) A hopeful and hardworking friend.
While interacting with people we should choose a friend who works hard, never choose lazy friends who always stays idol. Be careful while observing for some people are only pretenders and jokers.


7) A trustful and believable friend.
After you have interacted with a person, observe him/her wisely, is he/she trustful, does he/she bare false on you. You can also secretly take some investigation from other people about the person.

My friend is called Johns Mtisia Mlomba. We were born at the same village in the same year, but different months. We played and learnt the same school until our high school completion. We love and care one another. In difficult and challenging situations we help and support one another, we live in unity and peace. Hereby, we have a good friendship relation.


Before choosing a friend consider the above tips. Never choose any person as your friend. Make a correct decision for whom to choose.